I'm finding myself in somewhat of a difficult position. As you all know, I am a regular participant in something called Half-Nekkid Thursday (HNT). Despite the word "Nekkid", it doesn't mean that skin is shown. I'm a very modest person. The most I have ever shown (and will ever show) is me without a shirt. Nothing more than what I'd expose if I were wearing a swimming suit. That's just me. My take on HNT is to provide photos that entertain. That show imagery not expected. To use my imagination and provide some laughs through the thousand words that photos speak.
Not everyone takes this approach, as you may guess.
The problem I run into hovers around my philosophy of visiting the blogs of those people who visit mine. I feel it is rude not to. I want to at least give the courtesy to others that was shown me. The issue is that I tend to want to stay away from those blogs that portray overtly sexual and what I would consider immodest topics. There's a lot of artistic portrayals of the human body. A lot of people find that these are okay. That such portrayals are not immodest but showing the beautiful nature of the body as God intended it. That's fine that people want to think this. I'm not going to judge you if you think this way. But it is not my view.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying I think the human body is not beautiful. What I am saying is that I don't think it's good to be showing it off to just anyone who has an Internet connection. I feel that the human body is not only beautiful, but sacred. Personally, only a select few people should be privy enough to see the human body in it's natural state. But this is only my opinion, and I refuse to push it on others.
However, when it comes to this blog, I feel it is important to be assertive in my portrayals of what's modest and what's not. This is a family blog. It is designed to bring a smile to your face because I wrote or displayed something funny. There are people who visit my blog who are underage and/or offended by what can be considered obscene material. At the same time, I do not wish to alienate myself from others simply because of my moral beliefs. Maybe I'm wrong in that, I don't know. I just hope that nobody will ostrasize me or otherwise be offended by what I feel I must do to this blog.
It is with some regret that I must implement a new policy on this blog. Please understand that this is by no means anything personal to anyone in particular. But I must excercise my right to edit any comments with links to subjects that I feel does not meet the scope of this blog. This means that if you comment on one of my posts, and provide a link back to your blog which shows material that may be considered objectionable or even pornographic, please understand that I may (or may not) remove said link. I do not mean to offend anyone or otherwise cause sore feelings over this. I just need to protect (or perhaps rebuild) the integrity of my blog, and I think that this is the best way to do so.
I truly appreciate all comments that are made to anything that I create here. Please understand, this is not a policy I am implementing lightly. I know this may offend some, or even cause me to lose those precious few regular readers that I have. I just hope that you will understand why I feel I need to implement this new policy. Thanks in advance for understanding.

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1 Shelli // Aug 13, 2006 at 12:11 pm
I totally respect you and am in awe of you doing this, Schade. I believe that I always sign in with my family blog as my url, but if it isn't would you please tell me so that I could change it? I haven't done HNT on my other blog for many weeks and I am thinking of ending my fiction posts because I had a disturbing comment from a 14 year old boy on one of those posts. It kind of freaked me out as I have a 14 year old daughter.
2 Heather // Aug 15, 2006 at 7:01 am
It is great that you are willing to make sure that young people can come and visit your sight. I know my kids like to see the pictures on Thursday and I know that I don't have to worry about what they will see. I respect you for that!
3 Stephanie // Aug 15, 2006 at 5:43 pm
Rock on, Shade! I’ve been reading your blog for a few months now and absolutely love seeing that there are PURE posts. The way you talk about your children, your faith and your family life…I’m in awe. I have so much respect for you in making this decision and wording it the way you did.
4 Puffin // Aug 18, 2006 at 11:04 am
Dude, I always had an issue with HNT. The first problem I had was that some dude wants you to link back to his blog when you post a picture of yourself on your own blog…WHAT? Who made up that stupid rule that to post pictures of myself on myown blog that I had to link back to that dude. And I don’t care what he says his intention is to get naked pictures of women and it’s only masked by the wording that it’s for everyone. I can guarantee that if you have a dude’s name that he isn’t comming to your blog to check out your picture…Unless of course you have mentioned to him that you post pictures of naked women. The whole things screams of sexual predator, and I never liked it. This in turn adds to the stigma that men are pigs….Not all of us are pigs. Some of us really respect and love our families and in the blogging world there are too few of us.
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